A few years ago, I faced the same decision many of you are considering today. My husband had passed away unexpectedly and I was faced with a difficult choice. Should I stay in my beloved home with its ocean view and lush garden, or embrace a new chapter? Let me share my journey and the lessons I learned along the way.

After 37 years of marriage, I suddenly found myself living alone in this beautiful home overlooking the Pacific Ocean on British Columbia's Sunshine Coast.  This was to be our "forever" home, until life had other plans.

The decision to move back to Alberta meant saying goodbye to cherished friends and the last home my husband and I had created together, but my heart told me that I needed to be closer to family, to be more present in the lives of my kids and grandkids. That meant that, within 10 years, I had downsized twice and learned invaluable lessons about moving – and myself – along the way. Now, I have the privilege of using these experiences to guide others through their own transitions while enjoying precious time with my family.

Life has taught me that every ending opens the door to new possibilities. While moving can feel like saying goodbye, it's also an invitation to write an exciting new chapter of your story.

What I've learned about moving which often includes downsizing:

·      It’s a lot harder than anticipated; preparation is vital.

·       Our treasured possessions often have already fulfilled their purpose in our lives. Letting go creates space for new memories.

·       Focus on what you want your future lifestyle to be like. What brings you joy and purpose?

·       Your children are creating their own memories which may not include your treasured possessions.

For my clients considering this transition, I always recommend envisioning what you want the next chapter of your life to look like and why. Everyone's path is unique. Your answers to these questions will help guide your next steps and give you a clear vision of the home and lifestyle you are moving toward.

Are you thinking about downsizing or moving to suit a life change? Let's sit down together and explore the possibilities that lie ahead – not just for your next home, but for the life you envision. My personal experience has taught me that the right move isn't just about finding a new house – it's about opening the door to a lifestyle that aligns with where you want to be.

Let's discover what that looks like for you.